My best friend and I are drifting apart and its killing me!! HELP?!?
Question by Miranda♥ ☮ ツ: My best friend and I are drifting apart and its killing me!! HELP?!?
Me and my best friend have been really close this past year, but ever since she started dating my best guy friend she has totally changed her personality. It sucks
me and my best guy friend (lets call him Bob) are really close, and i told him that them going out is bothering me because it turns out she was telling him my secrets?? WTF?? she claims that every secret she tells me, i go and tell everyone else! and she lost her trust in me a long time ago! i really want her to trust me, but how can i trust her if she doesnt trust me? Well she is incredibly rude at my house too! she made my little brothers cry, my parents tell her not to do anything but she does it anyway! she wrote with tanning lotion on my driveway! and its still there! she WROTE ON MY WALL!!! “Miranda is gay!” and signed it from my dad! uggh my parents really hate her ALOT and well her dad was using her phone and texting me pretending to be her! and he was being really rude to me! i texted, “I’m by ur road!” because me and her used to text gay little messages like that, and he texted back, “Why are you by my road and why should i care?” that bothered me very much! so i texted back “once ur hormones settle down and u have a better attitude let me know!” i guess that pissed her dad off, cause he said “This is **** Dad, I really do not appreciate what you have been saying to whitney these past few days, and I am not liking your attitude, so I’m going to have to talk to your parents about it.” i texted back “ok” and he saidd, “If you have anything else RUDE to say to my daughter, say it to me not her!” and i said “oh ok, sorry about that!” and then Whitney came on the phone, but i didnt believe it was her, cause her dad was just on and she was all like “WOW YOU CANT EVEN BELIEVE UR BFF!! WOW!!” im like “well sorry ur dad was just on and he freaked out at me, so i didnt know if it was u or him!” and she got really pissed, she said “MY DAD DID NOT FREAK HE CALMLY EXPLAINED TO YOU THAT WHAT U WERE SAYING TO ME WAS UNACCEPTABLE! DONT TEXT BACK!” and i texted back saying sorry, i was just in shock.” and stuff like that, and she didnt reply so one hour later i asked if she still wanted to be friends, and she started listing reasons we shouldnt be. 1. YOU TELL ALL MY SECRETS TO (she started listing all my friends) and i asked her what secret i told? and she listed ONE, and it was to my old BFF that she liked her old crush, but i told her that was MY MISTAKE for letting myself think my old bff (a lying little snip) could be trusted, so my old bff went and told our guy friend and he told EVERYONE! so now she thought that was my fault. and she hated me for awhile, but that was along time ago, like in February. 2. YOU ARE THE MOST SELF CENTERED PERSON I KNOW! and i am NOT self centered at all, i donate a bunch of stuff all the time, im not stuck up, im not full of myself, if anything shes the one that everyone thinks is self centered, she called me a backstabber!! i AM NOT! like LITERALLY everyone calls her a backstabber because two years ago she backstabbed all of her friends. and it hurts me to have her say all this stuff to me. Ughh!! im so upset, and then i dont know she is sooo moody because she will be my best friend one second, and the next, she yells at me for no reason. And i told her im sick of all the public school drama, so im transferring to a private school (which i probably am) and shes like which one? (this was when we were in a fight) and i told her, and shes like Me too! and then she started being all nice to me?? so im like “remember we were fighting!” and she acted like she didnt know what we were talking about! im sooo sick of all of her drama that she dumps on me and expects me to sort out! but to admit it, i would be completley lost without her! so i really dont know what to do. I really want her to trust me again, and idk i miss the old her sooo much!! and she started ranting about me on here.
she said this:
OK i need help my bff miranda is a totaly ughh i dont like her and i dont want to end it like in a rude way like idk her breath smells really bad cuz she hardly ever burshes em and idk like she thinksim using her for her hosue and shes always yelling at me for know reaon pucnhing my mnose for no reason and she hurt my back and idk i dont like her and idk what to do??? i need adive should i stop being her cfriend???
when she said i was punching her in the mouth?? i have no idea what she was talking about, like once she was slapping me and it hurt, so we were laying on the bed and she was pinching me and slapping me so i kicked my legs, un aware that she was right behind me and i kicked her in the face, and she started freaking!! so idk??
this is another thing she said:
ok guys and girls. i bet youve all been in a good relationship before ok. Well i start off with i was in a happy relationship this year or ever and then i got in a fight with my bff and she spilled everything that i told her and my bf got mad at me a
Best answer:
Answer by Oriqinalstar31*♥
she’s gay.
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how could this be your true best friend if she couldnt even tell you that she lost trust in you along time ago…..and what is a suppose to be best friend ship without trust….think about it…..i mean it seems to me that the two of you were never really best friends…and for her to come over your house and be mean and rude to you and your family is just un acceptable….
WOW. thats a mouth full, LOL! Anyways, about that… i have had similar situation! acttually, last week, and i ended it! She was SO RUDE and MEAN! if your “BFF” is anything like my old BFF then you should leave her! She is not a true friend at all and she is not worth it! i know you will be leaving behind a lot, but you are worth better!!!
And that part about her dad on the phone…. wow, thats creepy, he is So weird! MY dad would never do that! UGH!
anyways, hope i helped
wow.
i highly suggest that u shud like not be frends anymore
if she was realli ur frend, i dont think she would yell at u like that and say UR SPILLING ALL MY SECRETS when its just one, i mean everyone slips their mouth right? She probaly even spilled a secret of yours. dont just sit back and let YOURSELF settle things, ARgue back with her. It might not be the best way or the way u want it to be, but from my point of view shes bullying u in a way. Dont let ur selfesteem go down just cause of her cause she sounds kinda up in herself. The best way would be leave her, and make new friends. Ull be much happier (:
hope this helped.
im stuck in the same situation u are, but its with 2 people and not with the boyfrend part, but im far worse than u are.
tell her to F*** OFF